Where you decide to take her on your first date will impact the overall date
experience. If you choose something that she’s interested in and where you can
spend time getting to know one another, the date has a good chance of going
well. On the other hand, if you pick a place that’s too crowded, loud, or involves
something that she simply doesn’t enjoy, your chances of success diminish. Give
yourself the best possible shot for getting to know your date by choosing a
location carefully.
Good first date ideas include:
A museum: Find one that both you and she will enjoy. There are enough
diversions and things to talk about if a lull in the conversation happens,
and its light enough that if things don’t go well you can easily part as
friends.
A theme or amusement park: You can both just have fun with the many
things to do at the park, and you will feel a lot less pressure to have to
create fun on the first date.
Go out for lunch or coffee: Perfectly simple, just meet her out for lunch or
coffee. It’s casual, and relatively stress-free. If things go well you can
keep the date going for the rest of the afternoon, and if not, you can just
end the date.
Go bowling. First make sure she likes to bowl, and then go play a few
strings. It’s a good way to be playfully competitive and flirtatious.
Walk the beach. If you live near a beach or lake, take her for a walk on
the beach.
There are several places where you don’t want to go for your first date. Avoid
these places because they will not help your date go smoothly.
The dive bar. Don’t take her to the scummy bar where they rent rooms in
the back. It’s dirty, and makes you look like you don’t have class.
The movie theater. The movies are dark, and everyone is quiet and
watching a movie. Not a good choice for a first date because you can’t get
to know each other, which is really the point for first dates.
Your Mom & Dad’s house. Seeking your parent’s approval on a first date
will make you look like you aren’t independent and that you might be a
Momma’s boy. Women will get freaked out by meeting your parents on the
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