If you want to be the woman that all men adore

 

If you want to be the woman that all men adore then you need to understand them. The more you understand about a man and how he processes and functions, the higher your chances of being able to personify his dream woman.

This doesn’t mean that you should create a persona that is not in line with who you are. Unfortunately, though, many women are afraid to show their true selves because they feel it makes them look weak. The problem is that the more you hide your true self, the more resentment you build up inside, whether or not you realize it, because you are working so hard to put up this front that has nothing to do with who you really are.

If you learn to love and accept who you are, you will give off an aura of confidence that men find irresistible. And by allowing yourself to admit to the fact that you need a man in your life, you will suddenly feel liberated and will be more open. You won’t project the hardened façade of “I don’t need anyone” which drives most men away, because as we have already seen, men want to feel needed.

A man wants to take care of a woman, he wants to be her hero and a woman who is completely self-sufficient and projects an aura of ruthless independence will drive men away. Of course, there are men who like strong women who take the lead but more often than not, a woman, no matter how strong or independent she is, doesn’t want to have to be the one doing the protecting. Even if she won’t admit it to herself, initially.

The problem is that by being dishonest with yourself you might enter into a relationship that will end up hurting both of you. The reason is that you initially project one thing to later open up and show your vulnerability and need for support. He will then feel cheated that you are a different person and so resentment will build up on both sides and lead to a sad ending.

Therefore, simply accept who you really are and allow yourself to be a woman. In fact, be proud of the fact that you are a woman and remember that men live to make their women happy because it’s what makes them feel good.

The woman all men adore is one who isn’t afraid to show her softer side, to show that she needs her man and one who understands the fundamental differences between men and women. By understanding how a man reacts differently she will be able to better respond to him and thus create a peaceful loving home.

There is nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has enough confidence and trust in him to be vulnerable with him. He will move mountains to please you and put a smile on your face, because men melt when they see the woman they love smile.