Use the following troubleshooting tips to help you if you’ve been dating and are experiencing problems. If your relationships are not lasting very long or you are having trouble getting less repeat dates, review these points. It’s time to be honest with yourself. There must be some behavior you are doing that is turning women off. Be sure you aren’t doing any of these things:
v Don’t
be cheap. You don’t have to give her
expensive things, but chivalry is still admired.
v Don’t
over exaggerate yourself, or brag. If
you are constantly telling stories that start with “I”, tone it down. She might
not mind it in the beginning, but after a date or two, it gets irritating.
v Don’t
be too pushy. If you bulldoze your way
through every hurdle in your way, she might be scared of you and get out of the
situation.
v Don’t
be insecure or clingy. Women will run
for the door if you are clingy, overbearing and insecure. In the early stages of dating, women don’t
want to have to take care of you.
v Don’t
have a bad temper. A woman doesn’t want to be with a man that can’t
constructively handle his anger. Women see this as a warning sign and they will
get out.
v Don’t
be indecisive or indifferent. You have to be able to make a decision. It’s not
fun to always have to make the decisions.
A man that can be a leader, make a decision and stick with it is
attractive. Not being able to pick an ice cream flavor or where to go for
dinner is annoying.
v Don’t
demonstrate defensive behavior.
v Don’t
try too much. If you look eager, you will look desperate.
v Don’t
focus on sex. If that is your main agenda in dating, a woman will realize it
fairly quickly and remove herself from the situation.
Just like in a business
transaction, when you are dating you are promoting a product. In this
situation, the product is you.
It’s important that you
promote yourself the best way possible.
Make sure that you look your best, and are continually working on
yourself to give the woman of your dreams the best you possible - once you find
her. The first impression is very
important, and you never know when you will meet someone. It’s important to live your life in a way
that you would want to give for your first impression.
As demonstrated in this book,
there are plenty of pitfalls that can sabotage your dating efforts. Keep your attitude positive, avoid a poor
image of yourself and low self-esteem, and maintain mature behavior to give
yourself the best chances for dating success.
Keep your confidence high so
that you can draw women to you. Women love a man that is confident in his
actions and his life.
Watch what other do, men who
are successful in getting dates and maintaining relationships, and improve upon
what they do. If you do things better than they do, you will be ahead of the
pack. Women will find out that you are extraordinary, and you will finally meet
the type of women that you deserve, that will treat you well, and that you can
enjoy spending time with.
The most valuable advice is to
enjoy your time getting to meet women and enjoy the companionship you share
together. Dating is exciting and sometimes stressful, but it is a fun time in
life when you can meet many people. With
these tips, you will find that meeting your special lady is closer than you
think! Good luck and happy dating!
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