Your appearance is important. This doesn’t mean that you need to be a male
model, but it does mean that you need to take care of yourself, and put a little
effort into how you look before you leave the house.
A big turnoff to women is men that don’t care about how they look. Are your close
dirty, worn, and altogether sloppy? If you are going out on a date with a woman,
you’ll need to pull yourself together a bit. There’s nothing wrong with wearing
jeans and a T-shirt with the guys, but a woman will want to see you try a little
harder. You can be sure that she is looking (again and again) in the mirror before
she meets your for your date. Why shouldn’t you do the same?
There’s nothing wrong with the casual jeans and T-shirt if they are clean,
unstained, and fit well. If you’re picking them up off the bedroom floor from the
night before, they probably don’t look okay. Also be sure that what you are
wearing is appropriate for where you are going. If you are going out for a nice
dinner, find out if there is a dress code.
This might sound basic, but don’t leave the house without first doing these thing.
1. Take a shower daily.
2. Shave.
3. Comb your hair.
4. Brush your teeth for white teeth and fresh breath.
5. Put on clothes that are clean, well-fitting, and pressed.
If you already have a date this is essential. And if you don’t and are just going out
to run errands, it’s even more important. You never know when you might meet
someone.
And don’t you want a woman’s first impression of you to be at your best?
We’ve covered dressing well, next is how you present yourself. Your posture
says a lot about how you feel and think about yourself. When you slouch, it looks
like you are not very self-confident.
An example of self-confidence in female attraction is how women are attracted to
men in uniforms. This isn’t because of the actual uniform; rather it’s the posture
and perceived confidence that attracts women. Their confidence makes them
look like they think they are winners, and by portraying that image, women
believe they are winners too.
Your hair style is important to your overall look. Pick a style that makes you look
successful and confident. Avoid trendy styles and cuts that will take a long time
to primp. Stick with a classic, clean look. Spend the extra money to go to a men’s
hairstylist for advice on a classic style that will look good with your face shape
and body type. Ask for something that is easy to maintain, and then be sure to
maintain it.
Basic personal hygiene is something that you might think goes without saying,
but it is so important that it’s worth spelling it out. Being clean and well-groomed
is essential to your success with women. Women notice the small stuff. Do these
things when getting your self in order:
Trim and clean your fingernails.
Thoroughly wash and scrub your hands to remove grease and grime and
soften them.
Go to the dentist regularly for cleanings, and look into having your teeth
whitened professionally, or use over-the-counter whitening strips.
Clear up your complexion using over-the-counter products, or see a
professional dermatologist for a prescription. No one needs to have acne
thanks to today’s modern science.
Get rid of pasty dull skin. Spend a little time outside to get some color, or if
you can’t, spend a few minutes at a tanning salon. Lots of men do it, and you’ll look healthier and sexier.
When preparing to go out:
DO:
Wear clean and well-maintained shoes that are appropriate for your outfit
and the occasion. For example, expensive sneakers with a suit won’t
impress her.
Drink in moderation if you decide to imbibe. Nothing is a bigger red flag to
a woman than someone who loses control. It’s not only dangerous but it
might also be a sign of an in ability to handle stress.
DON’T:
Wear more than a dab of cologne or aftershave. Overpowering scents are
not attractive, and she shouldn’t be able to smell you before she can see
you.
Wear inappropriate jewelry, or more than just a piece or two of jewelry.
Smoke tobacco, chew or dip tobacco. It’s a dirty habit that is not attractive.
Use drugs. The good women will walk the other way when they realize you use drugs.
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