The 5 Most Important
Dating Tips
There are hundreds of dating
recommendations out there. Here are five of the most crucial things you can do
to improve your chances for a successful date.
Consider these dating tips:
- Women want a man who acts confidently.
Women say this is even more important than overall looks. Women want
someone who is confident and interesting, not cocky and self-centered.
- Follow your ABC’s. This stands for
Agreeable, Body Language, and Communication. Be agreeable – you don’t have
to agree with everything she says, but avoid sexist, racial, rude and mean
remarks. Keep it light. Keep your
body language open and friendly.
Don’t ogle over her body and make sure your eyes on her.
Communicate effectively by using email, the phone and other means to stay
in touch.
- Avoid alcohol and dating. Try not to drink
too much on your date, there’s a big chance one of you will get sloppy and
it can be embarrassing the next day.
- Try an online dating service. There are
several reputable dating services, and these days it is a very effective
way to meet people that are like you. It is a substantial tool that can be
used to quickly and easily meet someone. Spend time writing a great
profile and upload a good picture of yourself. Again, remember to be
honest and don’t over exaggerate, but use words that are accurate and will
make a woman want to learn more about you. Avoid the cliché “I’m the man
of your dreams”, and be sure to list more of your interests than just
sports. Don’t insult the viewer’s intelligence.
- Be honest.
This one is essential for you to follow. Trying to get a woman by
building your attraction and relationship on lies will come back to bite
you at some point. Don’t waste her time, and your time, by lying during
the dating process. If you are using online dating, be as honest as you
can in your profile. Carefully look at your attributes and put them out
there.
The 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes
to Avoid
There are five common mistakes
that men make repeatedly when dating. Regardless of whether the guy is new to
the dating scene or has been dating for years, these same five things plague
men. To successfully impress a women avoid these things:
- Self-centered conversation. Don’t keep
rambling on about yourself. Ask her about herself and listen to what she has to say. Talking throughout the whole
date will not impress her. She’ll want to learn more about you and will
spend time trying to find out.
- Poor conversation skills. Learn how to
simply ask a question. Many men don’t know how to phrase a question so
that it will get her talking and show her that you are interested in her
life. Think about this before you start your date, so that you are prepared.
Listen to what a woman is talking about and ask questions based on what
she is saying. It’s the way to get engaged in a conversation, and will
eventually flow naturally.
- Lack of compliments. You don’t compliment
her – ever. Women like men who are observant and pay attention to them.
Just find something you like about her and say it. It doesn’t need to be
made into something bigger than that.
- You act like someone else. Don’t try too
hard to sell yourself, or overstate reality. By being sincere she can act
naturally too, and doesn’t have to feel like she does not impress you
enough.
- You treat her like one of the guys. Treat
her well, like a woman, and she will be happy. Do the chivalrous things
that don’t take a lot of time, effort, or money but will show her you
enjoy her company. She’ll feel pampered.
Try opening the door for her, helping her get her coat back
on. Consider sending her a small
gift or some flowers the day after your first date together. It’s the thought that counts, and she’ll
notice the extra step you take to make her happy.
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