Timothy and Veronica grew up together

 

Timothy and Veronica

 

Timothy and Veronica grew up together, they went to school together and were very good friends. As they grew older Tim realized that he was romantically in love with Veronica and assumed that Veronica knew how he felt, he never told her. 

 

He did everything a man does for his lover for Veronica, he was always the first to call her on her birthday, he bought her gifts on her birthdays, Valentine’s day, on every occasion that gifts are exchanged and even when gifts are not exchanged.

 

He took her out on dates; they went to the movies, games together and with friends. They were always paired together by their friends. She was the first person he talks to about things that where bothering him and decisions that he wants to take. They were closer than some married couples.

 

Veronica was in love with Timothy as well, but she is the kind that believes that a man has to make the first move to initiate a relationship. She was secretly praying for Timothy to say the word but Tim never said anything, because he assumed they were already dating. Veronica’s clock was ticking, she wanted to get married but she was turning down all the men that were coming because she was waiting for Timothy to say the word.

 

When she was twenty nine, she was sent abroad by the company she works in for a six months training. Whilst there she was still in touch with Tim, exchanging gifts with him, communicating with him daily. She was still expecting him to say the word but he never did. Then she met another man Gabe at a mall, she liked him a lot but she was not in love with him.

 

He asked her out for a date. A month after their first date he popped the question that Veronica has been waiting for Tim to ask for some time “Will you marry me?”

 

Veronica was surprised but she asked him to give sometime to think. She was confused because here is Timothy, whom she loves and has known all her life but he has never told her that he loves her or told her that he wanted more than friendship from her. And, here is Gabe that she likes very much and has known for only a short time is asking her for marriage. “What should do?”

 

She asked herself, she has to get married and she can no longer wait for Tim because she does not know how he feels about her. So she said yes to Gabe and they got married after two months.

 

When Tim heard about the marriage, he was very angry and he called her all sorts of names. But, she told him that he never told her how he felt.

 

Now....what is the moral to this story? The moral is..... If you love a woman let her know immediately...Act fast!

 

 

WOOING HER

 

Wooing a woman takes planning and strategies as you have known. But planning and strategy has to be within your means. You don’t have to break a bank because you want to woo a woman. If she expects you to break a bank before you can get her or make her happy then she is not worth your time, effort and money. There are many good women out there. Leave her

 

It actually takes little things applied correctly to make most good women happy. Follow these strategies and you would never go wrong.

 

Dates

 

Going out on dates is actually a must in every relationship, whether you have been married for fifty years or just starting. Our focus is really on the man that has just met a woman he is interested in and a man that has just indicated his interest in a woman he has known for some time. Though, a married man can still use any or all of these ideas to woo his wife because the wooing never really stops.

 

When planning a date, men often think that there are certain things that they should and should not do. Women are individuals, though, and what turns one woman on may be very off-putting and aversive to another. By following a few simple guidelines, you can make sure that the wooing goes smoothly and happily for both of you.

 

A word of warning; if you are on a budget, decide on how much you want to spend and stick to it. Decide on an affordable activity and location, decide on affordable place to dine out or you can as well have  a picnic in the middle of your living room, with a nice bottle of wine, candles and the music of your choice can even do the trick if you play the game well.

 

Take her on a planned date, to dinner at a place where she has mentioned that she likes or on a surprise date to a good place you have tried and you think she would like. You can invite her over to your place for dinner or Sunday brunch; make it special by preparing something you think she would like or something she has mentioned that she likes.

 

Take her to watch movies, if she likes movies. If she likes sports you can go and watch a sporting event together .Take her to the Olympics, just kidding; you can go on a drive together to a predetermined spot. Serenade her sometimes by singing a love song outside her window. Go to a coffee house and read poetry to each other.

 

Call your local radio station and make a request for her favorite song or any love song to be played and make sure she is listening, by first sending a text message to her asking her to listen to the particular radio station at the said time.

 

Enjoy the outdoors; picnic in your local park or at your local beach; host a candlelight dinner in your own backyard, patio or terrace, use the stars as your backdrop and candles to create intimacy. You can watch the sun go down or the moon come up together. You can also visit the Museum or National Park together

 

It is exciting to try new things, but don't go too far outside of either of your comfort zones.  It doesn't really matter how much money you spend, or how gallant you are. In the end, it's a man's sensitivity and compatibility which really impresses a woman.

 

Gifts

 

Giving gifts is a good way of showing your woman that you appreciate her, because that is what she really wants from you. When buying her gifts put some thought to it, don’t only give her gifts on her birthdays, Valentine’s Day and on other known holidays. Surprise her with a gift from time to time. Buy her things that she likes, it might just be something she mentioned that she likes during the course of your conversation. Something you feel would make her smile.

 

It is not the cost of the gift that matters to her but the fact that you thought of her and that made you to buy something for her. It can be something as simple as her favourite flower, candy, chocolates, bath goodies or pricey gifts like jewelleries. Something you are able to afford.

 

 

Take the time to wrap the gift, and get a card. This seems silly; of course a gift is just as good if it isn't wrapped. However, giving a wrapped gift and a sentimental card will make her feel even more like a queen to you. You can even give her pampering gifts like manicure/pedicure gift certificate or massage products or give certificates. Let her know you are thinking of her give her something special not generic.

 

 

 

 

Communication

This is a very important tool in a relationship make out time to communicate with her, call her when you promise to call, call her when she does not expect you to call, send her romantic text messages and if you are a good writer, write romantic poems. Be attentive, listen to her don’t always do the talking learn to listen to her. Make the effort to sit down across from her after a long day to discuss work, friends and your relationship... Don't force the topic toward the relationship. 

Concentrate on her, do not only look at her focus on her: her eyes, her body language and her voice, let her know that she has your undivided attention. Notice when she is happy and when she is sad try to make her happy. Let her know at all times that you care her.

Communication is how we get to know each other. The ability to listen is a great tool, and in case you're wondering, no, it's not the same thing as hearing. If you're out on a date and getting your lady to open up is like pulling teeth, ask her about her interests and things you know she's passionate about. She might just need that little push to get going, and if talking about her passion for photography is what does the trick, just make sure you're all ears. 

By being an attentive listener, it'll encourage her to open up and chat away, and she'll gain your trust. And if you prove that you're listening, getting her to be quiet might become your next problem.

 

 

Be Sensitive

 

A little bit of generosity goes a long way. This doesn't necessarily mean monetary generosity. Perhaps your woman has been having financial problems, or perhaps she's been having difficulty with a relative or her boss. If you lend a compassionate ear, she will come away with a good impression of you and the date you had together. Listening is a skill many men have difficulty with, but it is one of the most important skills any man can possess. If her openness makes you feel uncomfortable, just nod and smile. Try to find areas where you have something in common.

Chivalry

 

Be considerate; always show kindness and courteousness towards her. Open the car door for her, offer to drive her (and drive safely, so as not to frighten her). Always pay for the first date. Be punctual when picking her up. Be kind to waiters and cab drivers Women appreciate a man who is respectful, as it says a lot about how he will treat her and whether or not he respects women in general.

 

Some people find this practice outdated. Be awesome at anything; if you are smart, show it off, if you are funny, make her laugh, or if you are good at sports, give a demonstration. Let her know how you are different.

 

Pay Compliments

Pay attention to positive traits, features and character about her. It does not have to be complex, it may even be simply letting her know that you love the way she is dressed or her hair is styled. Tell her things like “You have such beautiful smile” State your compliments by looking her straight in the eye this emphasizes the sincerity of your compliments. Body compliments should be avoided in the initial stage of your interaction but compliment do compliment on her later and always in the relationship.

 

Compliment her on her brains, jokes and talents and be very sincere in your compliments

 

Conclusion

Never compromise your morals. If the person you are interested in is not interested in you, then you should move on. Some people are very polite and you may not realize immediately that they aren't interested. But, given time, it should become apparent. In the meantime, take it slow, and even if you are head over heels, don't reveal this right away, at least until you are sure they are genuinely interested in you, too, or they could use your attraction to their benefit.

 

Usually it is best to reveal one's feelings step by step, not much more nor much less than the other has revealed. However, people have very different ways for showing that they are or are not interested, so do not break up, or step it up, without talking things through as to where you're both headed. If you feel like you need time to decide, do not hesitate to talk.

 

Never be forceful. If you ever pressure her to do something she doesn't feel comfortable doing, she won't be shy to say goodbye. Forcing her to do what she doesn’t want to do is rude. Try to continue doing your normal routine, with them in mind, rather than changing your whole life around them. Hopefully they will want to have a relationship with YOU, not a clone of themselves or a tag along.

 

The most important thing in dating is to be conscious of your date's feelings and reactions. If she's a high-powered lawyer or a free-thinking intellectual, she may feel that your chivalry is an attempt to deprive her of her independence. However, if she's pleased at your holding the door for her, keep up the gallantry.

A lot of guys choose women who are "arm candy" -- good-looking trophy girlfriends who bolster their status among other men or counteract their own insecurities. That's all well and good, but if you find a woman who makes you happy, regardless of looks, age or social status -- or what any other guy thinks -- then you have definitely won at the mating game.